STEFAN AND ELENA (STELENA)'s WILL IT BE?

Im really upset tht i havent checked tv fanatic and i missed this voting thing :( i have read almost all the comments and for the ones who are blind and cannot see most of the comments are stelena fans with long useful points!! Delena fans are not bias here...your supposed to look clearly for the reasons why damon or stefan should be with elena...im not a person who would hate Damon just because i love stefan...i absolutely adore damon, why? because no matter how much u sit there and stare at one of his pictures u will never get tired! he is gorgeous and smoking hot and no one not even stelena fans can deny this..i loved damon from the very first episode - his mean/funny character - thts what makes him damon..he's been so boring in season 3...i think he just had 2 or 3 funny quotes in all these recent episodes and thts it...so just imagine how he's going to turn out to be when he's in a relationship with elena-and again im not denying the fact tht they wont be in a serious relationship...there has to be, cuz its a love triangle, they can't fully ignore the book :p I can't rememeber where i read tht damon was never selfish...oh please have u really watched this show? all damon was in the past 2seasons was selfishness! like when he kissed katherine thinking it was elena - at tht moment he didnt even think about the fact tht he was kissing his brother's girlfriend - stefan freakin saved his life 2min before tht scene! Ok maybe when u start kissing someone u dont wanna stop and ur not really thinking about anything at tht time - but then he kept trying to get elena to talk to him about it and when he found out it wasnt elena he got reaaalllyyyy upset! he should've been glad! because in real-life tht's not wat brothers do for each other! even when in the past when stefan was being blood-aholic and bad, damon walked away...he didnt even try to help him and he was too upset about losing his loving katherine! He tried to kiss elena again in season 2 being selfish again! And here in season 3 he tried to be selfless...yes he showed tht...with the whole map on his closet door...and he didnt tell elena about it because he knows tht she would put herself in danger to save stefan's life...damon hurt stefan for god knows how many times-but stefan has always saved his life in return...i do know tht it would hurt him to see stefan in physical pain cuz we've seen tht, but we havent really seen how he actually gets off his lazy butt and saves stefan's ass like how stefan does it for him - im talking about the brothers mostly right now because im trying to tell u guyz tht stefan does these kind of things for damon because he's his brother and elena is not in the middle of all this...when two ppl love each other they want to fight for each other...stefan and elena fight each toher - they've been in with each other through thick and thin...katherine tried to break them up but tht didnt last very long-and they broke up to save each otherz lives! theyve been apart for such a long time in season 3 only because stefan wanted to keep klaus away from mystic falls and elena! (not because he walked away to save his brother!!!!!!!)))) dude!!! u really need to sit down and watch this tv show! because clearly u havent seen a single bit of it! he already had saved damon at the end of season 2 with getting klaus' blood for him there was no need to walk away to save him! stelena's scenes are so intense and loving tht it even brings tears to many delena fans-what was up with the scene when they were lieing down next to each other trying to sleep...why the hell did ppl think tht was so "sweet"...um did i miss seeing them kiss? did i miss hearing them say to each other tht they love each other? nno! all elena told him was tht she doesnt hate him for releasing stefan-what she's trying to do is to get the brothers to be closer to each other! 
Overall, i would say the exact same points as mimi and kelly and all these stelena fans who have made clear and useful points...im not going to waste my time reapeating because delena fans do not want to listen...
and btw this voting was not really fair..why are there couples from different shows? gossip girl and vampire diaries? really? they cannot even be compared with each other other than the fact tht they're not ALLOWED to be compared...so i would make separate votings to show the REAL results!
THANK YOU! :)